Tending to our souls in a distracting world

Dan Steel  |  Features
Date posted:  13 Oct 2025
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Tending to our souls in a distracting world

'Just as a gardener tends the soil so fruit may grow...' Source: iStock

Pastoral ministry has always been demanding, but our current age presents a peculiar challenge: distraction. (Even as I write this I realise I’ve forgotten to turn off notifications!)

The constant hum of tones and beeps, the relentless pull of emails, the lure of social media, and the subtle pressure to appear productive all conspire to scatter our attention.

In such an environment, tending to the soul - our deep inner life with God - can easily be neglected. Yet the health of our souls is not an optional extra for those who serve in ministry.

The inner life

We often remind our congregations that life flows from the heart (Proverbs 4v23), but we can forget that the same is true for us. Ministry is not simply about content and output - sermons written, visits made, programmes run - but rather overflow. When our inner life is rooted in God, what we say and do bears weight. When it is neglected, ministry easily becomes performance - driven by anxiety, insecurity, or comparison.

Keeping the soul, then, is a matter of stewardship. Just as a gardener tends the soil so fruit may grow, pastors and leaders are called to cultivate the inner life where communion with Christ flourishes.

The challenge of distraction

The age we live in does not reward stillness. Phones vibrate, inboxes fill, and endless streams of news compete for our emotional bandwidth. Even good things - podcasts, theological lectures, leadership resources - can become a cacophony of noise that drowns out the still, small voice of God. This is not simply a time-management issue; it is a spiritual battle. Distraction is subtle, but it is one of the enemy’s most effective tools for withering the soul.

For those in ministry, distraction can masquerade as faithfulness. We can busy ourselves with activities, mistake constant accessibility for pastoral care, or measure our worth by productivity. The danger is that we can gain the whole ministry world and lose our soul in the process.

The practices of soul keeping

What, then, does it mean to keep the soul in such an environment?

  1. Silence and solitude – These disciplines are more necessary than ever. Even a few minutes a day of unhurried presence before God recalibrates the heart. In solitude, we are reminded that we are not defined by our output, but by our union with Christ.
  2. Sabbath rest – A weekly rhythm of ceasing from work is both obedience and resistance. It declares to a frantic world that God is God and I am not. For pastors, this will require courage, as needs are never-ending, but rest is God’s gift for sustaining the soul.
  3. Scripture and prayer – Not as tools for prep, but as spiritual food. The temptation to mine the Bible only for ministry purposes is real, but pastors must first receive the Word as disciples.
  4. Honest community – Soul keeping is not solitary. Pastors need trusted companions who can ask hard questions, listen without judgment, and remind us of the gospel when we forget.
  5. Limits and boundaries – A distracted age will always ask for more. Part of soul keeping is learning to say no, trusting that God’s kingdom does not depend on our constant activity.

The fruit of a kept soul

When pastors keep their souls, they minister from abundance rather than scarcity. Their presence becomes less frenetic, their words carry greater weight, and their leadership reflects the peace of Christ rather than the anxiety of the world. A kept soul is not a luxury; it is the foundation of healthy ministry.

In the end, the question is not whether distraction will come - it will - but whether we will let it rule us. By God’s grace, pastors can and must prayerfully resist.

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