BEFORE WE SAY GOODBYE (PREPARING FOR A GOOD DEATH)
By Ray Simpson
Harper Collins. 227pages. £9.99
ISBN O OO 711939 9
Ray Simpson is the guardian of the Community of Aidan and Hilda and lives on the island (Holy Island) of Lindisfarne.
The book has limited value for the evangelical Christian though some of its contents could be used pastorally to encourage people to make practical preparations for their death. For example, thinking of what might be said to loved ones or leaving lists of where to find various documents (insurance policies, certificates, bank or building society details, etc.), to avoid the hassle that can so easily accompany a bereavement.
The six chapters of the book deal with befriending death when young, growing before going (i.e. in the face of death live simply, fulfil your destiny and so on), being prepared to die, creating a good 'departure lounge', the other side and some testimonies of inspiring deaths.
The limited usefulness of the book is severely hampered by the underlying belief system it promotes. The author very obviously teaches Celtic mysticism and new-age spirituality. He assumes that the 'worlds beyond this' are all benign in character. He encourages communication with the departed and prayers to the dead. We are told to hold imaginary conversations with angels. In fact, the book is dangerous because it would lull people into thinking that death is all right and some kind of heaven is guaranteed to all. What false hope it gives!
We need to prepare for a good death, but that will only be possible if we know we have been delivered from the eternal torment of hell and are assured of a home in heaven with Christ. This book will not help you to know this.
A good theme for reflection, a bad book to deal with the issues. All things considered this book is not recommended.
