GOD’S CARE FOR THE WIDOW
Encouragement and wisdom for those who grieve
By Austin Walker. Day One. 123 pages. £5.00
ISBN 978-1846251993
This book undoubtedly affirms God as the one with a special place in his heart for the widow and clearly underlines the responsibility of the church to honour, provide and care for those whose lives have been significantly changed by loss.
Devoid of unhelpful clichés and slick, easy answers, it addresses some of the complexities of grief with an honesty and a style that is easy to read, sometimes repetitive, yet profound. It flows from a pastor’s heart and is interspersed with personal encouragement and affirmation, avoiding the temptation to sound patronising or dismissive. But, as it tenderly explores some of the intense emotions and reactions that can be experienced by the widow, it remains full of challenge, dealing with issues like guilt, self-pity and bitterness.
Grounded in Scripture, Austin Walker draws helpful principles from the lives of biblical characters, including Naomi, the widows of Zarephath and Nain. He highlights the most powerful example from the life of Christ and his demonstration of a uniquely selfless love for his mother at the cross.
The last few chapters would make good material for discussion in a group setting, as they explore the role of the church in terms of practical support, pastoral care and financial assistance. Perhaps this closing section would be stronger if in some areas it allowed for the more complicated situations that can arise, but the counsel given regarding remarriage and future involvement in the church is both insightful and thought provoking.
For those finding it hard to concentrate and focus following a recent loss, or those trying to re-evaluate their position in the church family after a number of years without their spouse, God’s Care for the Widow will provide words of assurance and wisdom. We are never in doubt that God has a wonderful plan and glorious future for those who are widowed. In addition, it will be a valuable tool for all involved in pastoral ministry, as they seek to understand and get alongside those who grieve.
