THE SIXTY MINUTE GRANDPARENT
By Rob Parsons
Hodder & Stoughton. 128 pages. £11.99
ISBN 978 1 444 745 696
In the last but one paragraph of the book Rob Parsons says: ‘When grandparenting works best, it does so as a support to both parents and children’. The book is a good, sensible guide which if followed can help grandparents achieve this aim.
The author demonstrates that the role of a grandparent is complementary to that of a parent and gives useful advice on how to fulfil that role. I particularly liked the idea that grandparents are the keepers of the family memories.
Cheer leaders
Practical advice is given about how you can develop your unique relationship with your grandchildren and also about respecting your children’s role as parents. Rob Parsons says: ‘Your role on the family team has changed. You aren’t the coach any more: you are the president of your children’s fan club — your job now is to cheer them on’.
Pitfalls
The book describes with humour and humanity the many pitfalls a grandparent can fall into with advice how to avoid getting into them in the first place.
It is written from a realistic viewpoint. It acknowledges that not all grandparents are the same. It acknowledges that not all family situations are the same and that for many varied reasons being a grandparent can be a very challenging task. The book deals wisely and sympathetically with painful issues of grandparenting.
I enjoyed reading this book. I found it helpful, thought provoking and I thoroughly recommend it.
